Most escorts on AdultWork aren’t making six figures. But some are. The difference isn’t luck. It’s how they book. If you’re spending hours replying to lowball messages, getting stood up, or working for £80 an hour while others clear £300+, you’re missing key booking strategies. This isn’t about being flashy or posting more photos. It’s about treating your escort job like a business-with systems, boundaries, and smart pricing.
Stop Responding to Every Message
You get 20 messages a day. Ten are from guys asking if you’re "free tonight" with no details. Three want to haggle. Five are clearly bots or scammers. The other two? Maybe legit. If you reply to all of them, you’re wasting 3-4 hours a day on dead ends. That’s time you could be sleeping, updating your profile, or screening better clients.Set a rule: no reply unless they include at least three specific details. That means: date, time, location, and what they’re looking for. If they write "u up?", skip it. If they write "Can we meet Friday at 8pm at the Hilton Brighton? I’d like a full service with a cuddle afterward," that’s a qualified lead. Filter early. Filter hard.
Price Based on Demand, Not Desperation
Don’t drop your rates because you’re "feeling low" or "need cash this week." That trains clients to see you as cheap. It also attracts the wrong people-those who’ll treat you like a commodity, not a professional.Look at your calendar. If you’re consistently booked on Fridays and Saturdays, raise your weekend rate by 30-50%. If you’re empty on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, offer a limited-time midweek discount-but only to clients who’ve booked with you before. New clients get the standard rate. Returning clients get loyalty perks. That’s how you build repeat business.
In Brighton, top escorts on AdultWork charge £250-£400 for a standard hour on weekends. Midweek? £180-£220. If you’re charging £120, you’re leaving money on the table. And you’re attracting clients who won’t tip, won’t refer you, and might even be rude.
Use the Booking System, Not Just Messages
AdultWork has a built-in booking calendar. Most escorts ignore it. They rely on WhatsApp or text to confirm. That’s risky. If a client says "I’ll pay you £200 cash when I get there," and then ghosts you, you have no proof. But if you use the platform’s booking system, you get:- Automated payment confirmation
- Client profile verification
- Record of agreed time, location, and service
- Protection if something goes wrong
Even if you meet in person, require a booking through AdultWork first. Send the client the link to your calendar. Say: "I only confirm appointments through the site. Once you book, I’ll send you the address." It sounds firm. It filters out the flaky ones. And it protects you.
Control the Location-Every Time
Never let a client pick the location. That’s how you end up in sketchy hotels, empty houses, or places with no exit. You set the rules.In Brighton, the best spots are mid-range hotels with 24-hour reception-like the Brighton Harbour Hotel or the Royal Albion. They’re safe, quiet, and clients expect to pay for them. You don’t need luxury. You need reliability. Choose three hotels you’re comfortable with. Add them to your profile as "preferred locations." If a client wants somewhere else, say no. Don’t explain. Don’t justify. Just say: "I only work at approved locations. These are the only ones I accept."
If they push? Walk away. You’re not there to please everyone. You’re there to earn safely and consistently.
Charge for Time, Not Just Service
Many escorts charge by the hour. But what if the client arrives 20 minutes late? What if they want to talk for an hour before anything else? You’re losing money.Start charging a minimum 90-minute block for all appointments. That includes travel time, chat, setup, and service. If they want to leave early? No refund. If they want to stay longer? £100 extra per 30 minutes. This isn’t greedy. It’s fair. It respects your time.
One escort in Brighton told me she used to do 60-minute slots at £180. She switched to 90-minute blocks at £270. Her income jumped 50%. Why? Fewer clients, but higher quality. More sleep. Less stress. More cash.
Require a Deposit-No Exceptions
No deposit? No appointment. That’s it.Ask for 50% upfront via bank transfer or PayPal. Don’t accept cash on arrival. That’s how you get scammed. A deposit isn’t about distrust. It’s about respect. Clients who won’t pay a deposit won’t respect your time, your space, or your boundaries.
Make it clear: "A 50% deposit is required to confirm your booking. The remaining balance is due in cash upon arrival." If they ask why? Say: "It’s standard policy to ensure both parties are committed." End of discussion.
Build a Client Tier System
Not all clients are equal. Some pay on time, tip, refer others, and are polite. Others are late, complain, demand extras, and never come back. Track them.Create three simple tiers:
- Tier 1 (Platinum): Booked you 3+ times, tipped consistently, referred someone. Offer them priority booking and a 10% discount.
- Tier 2 (Regular): Booked once or twice, paid on time, no drama. Charge standard rate.
- Tier 3 (Red Flag): Cancelled last minute, tried to haggle, asked for illegal stuff, was rude. Block them. No second chances.
Keep this list private. Update it after every booking. Over time, you’ll see patterns. You’ll know who to say yes to-and who to ignore.
Use Your Profile Like a Sales Page
Your AdultWork profile isn’t just a photo gallery. It’s your storefront. If it looks like a teenager’s Instagram post, you’ll attract teenage budgets.Write a clear, confident bio. Not: "Hi, I’m Lucy, 24, love to cuddle." Try: "Professional escort based in Brighton. 5+ years experience. Available for discreet, high-quality appointments. Minimum 90 minutes. Deposit required. No exceptions. Please read my policies before booking."
Use high-res photos. Show your face. Show your style. Show your space if you’re comfortable. No blurry selfies. No filters that make you look like a cartoon. Real, polished, professional.
Update your profile every 30 days. Add new photos. Refresh your bio. Mention seasonal offers: "Winter special: 10% off midweek bookings until February 28." It keeps your profile active. It signals you’re serious.
Track Everything
You wouldn’t run a café without tracking sales. Don’t run an escort business without tracking income.Use a simple spreadsheet. Record:
- Date and time of booking
- Client tier
- Service provided
- Rate charged
- Deposit received
- Tip received
- Location
- Notes (e.g., "polite, tipped £50", "late, no tip, won’t book again")
After three months, look at your numbers. Which days are your highest earners? Which clients give you the best returns? Which locations cost you more in travel than you made? Adjust accordingly.
It’s Not About More Clients. It’s About Better Ones.
The goal isn’t to book 10 clients a week. It’s to book 3 great ones. The kind who pay on time, respect your space, leave a tip, and refer their friends. That’s how you scale without burning out.Most escorts think they need to be everywhere, always available, always responding. That’s how you get exhausted, underpaid, and taken for granted.
Be selective. Be firm. Be professional. The right clients will find you. And they’ll pay what you’re worth.
Should I lower my rates to get more bookings?
No. Lowering your rates attracts clients who value cheap over quality. You’ll get more inquiries, but fewer repeat bookings, fewer tips, and more stress. Instead, raise your rates for high-demand times and offer loyalty discounts to returning clients. Quality beats quantity every time.
Is it safe to meet clients at home?
It’s not recommended. Meeting at home increases risk and removes your control over the environment. Stick to professional locations like hotels with 24-hour reception. You’ll feel safer, clients will take you more seriously, and you’ll avoid unwanted situations. Your safety isn’t negotiable.
How do I handle clients who try to negotiate after booking?
Say: "The rate was agreed upon when the booking was confirmed. I don’t renegotiate after the fact." Then end the conversation. If they push, cancel the booking and block them. You’re not there to argue. You’re there to work on your terms.
What if a client cancels last minute?
Keep their deposit. It’s your time they’ve taken. If they cancel with less than 24 hours’ notice, your policy should state the deposit is non-refundable. This protects you from no-shows and encourages clients to be responsible.
How do I know if a client is legitimate?
Check their AdultWork profile. Do they have a history? Have they booked with others? Do they have photos and a bio? If they’re new, ask for a video call before confirming. Legit clients won’t mind. Scammers will disappear.
If you’re serious about making more money from your escort work, stop treating it like a side hustle. Treat it like a business. Set prices. Set boundaries. Set systems. The rest will follow.
